September 11 is an important and solemn day. Many of us remember the details of that day, although it didn't impact us in California in the same way it did those in New York. What happened changed our country forever and had an impact around the world. Our kids were born long after this tragic day, and some younger parents were too young to remember it or weren't born yet. No matter where you were or whether you remember that day firsthand, September 11 is a day we should never forget.
One of the things I remember most was what happened later that day and in the days, weeks and months that followed. Our country came together to help. People from all over went to New York, from first responders to everyday people who simply wanted to help. As the stories unfolded, we heard about so many ordinary people who became heroes. It was a scary and heartbreaking time, but it was also a beautiful reminder of how people can come together in the hardest moments. As we remember the many lives lost and those who survived but were changed forever, my heart is also warmed by the countless stories of courage, kindness, compassion and hope.
As parents, we also have the opportunity to teach our children about 9/11 when we feel they are ready. It is a difficult subject, and it may not be appropriate for every age, but understanding our history and hearing stories of the people who helped others can be an important part of remembering.
Each year on September 11, we commemorate the anniversary of 9/11 and remember the lives lost and the heroes who responded that day. Here are local, virtual and at-home ways for families to honor and remember together.
Local 9/11 Remembrance Events and Memorials
Pepperdine University, Malibu
Visit Alumni Park along Pacific Coast Highway and Malibu Canyon Road to view the Waves of Flags, an annual tribute honoring the 2,977 lives lost in the 9/11 terror attacks. The display includes 2,887 American flags representing the American lives lost and 90 international flags representing the home countries of those who died from abroad.
The Waves of Flags became a Pepperdine tradition in 2008 when the Pepperdine College Republicans, inspired by a similar display, wanted to bring the tribute to the University.
September 5-18, 2026
Alumni Park at Pepperdine University, Malibu
Friday, September 11, 2026 at 9 a.m.
9/11 25th Anniversary Remembrance Ceremony at Alumni Park
Ronald Reagan Presidential Library and Museum - Simi Valley
They host and annual event commemorating 9/11
Commemorating the 25th Anniversary of 9/11 from 6 pm - 7 pm
This in person event includes keynote remarks by U.S. Army Sergeant Neil Duncan (Ret.) and Brian Montgomery, live music and a tribute to our fallen heroes.
Local Firehouses
Many fire departments hold 9/11 remembrance ceremonies on September 11. These are typically brief ceremonies held early in the morning. Check your local fire department's social media pages for details and times closer to 9/11.
Local 9/11 Memorials to Visit
- Pepperdine University Heroes Garden - Malibu
- Beverly Hills 9/11 Memorial Garden
- LA Fire Department 9/11 Memorial
 Photo By: Christen Carney Reiner |  Photo By: Christen Carney Reiner |  Photo By: Christen Carney Reiner |
About the 9/11 Memorial and Museum
The 9/11 Memorial and Museum is a nonprofit organization located on eight of the 16 acres of the World Trade Center site. The Memorial and Museum commemorate the 2,977 people killed on 9/11 and honor the spirit and resilience of New York City.
The Memorial plaza features two reflecting pools set within the footprints of the original Twin Towers and surrounded by swamp white oak trees. The Museum explores the global impact of 9/11 and its continuing significance through education programs, public programs, live talks and films.
Visiting New York City? Consider adding the 9/11 Memorial and Museum to your itinerary. It is a meaningful place to learn more about the events of 9/11 and remember the people whose lives were lost.
Engaging activities for kids to participate at home: Free Activities for Kids
Virtual 9/11 Tributes
- Friday, September 11, 2026 at 5:40 AM Pacific Time: The 9/11 Memorial and Museum annual commemoration ceremony
25th Anniversary Tribute in Light
The annual Tribute in Light features two beams of light that shine into the night sky over New York City on September 11, symbolizing the Twin Towers and honoring those who lost their lives. For the 25th anniversary, the 9/11 Memorial and Museum is also presenting a special evening program with performances and other tributes.
- Friday, September 11, 2026 at 5 p.m. Pacific Time: Watch on ABC, Disney+, Hulu, National Geographic, and ABC News Live
Honor, Remember and Learn About 9/11
This is an important, but not easy, part of our history to share with children. Your local library is a great resource for finding books, shows and movies for all ages that can help you talk about the events of the day and the stories of resilience that followed.
Here are just a few resources to get you started:
- Talking to Children About Terrorism
- National Geographic KiDS: Heroes of 9/11
- Tunnel to Towers Foundation: Educational resources, 9/11 Curriculum K-12
- ▶️ This Very Tree-A Story of 9/11, Resilience, and Regrowth | Kids Reading Aloud Picture Story Book
Watch the storytime below with your children for an inspiring true story about resilience, community and the everyday heroes who helped bring hope during a difficult time.
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